Do your wrists hurt when you do a push-up? Fix that with these trainer-approved tricks

These simple tweaks make all the difference to push-ups or high planks

Woman sits on floor in sportswear holding her wrist, a pained expression on her face
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Despite being a personal trainer, I generally avoid push-ups and high planks because my wrists just can’t handle them. I’ve suffered from tendinitis on and off for almost a decade, and it’s these kinds of wrist-heavy moves that I find too painful to even attempt.

It’s a similar story with many of my PT clients and the regulars who come to my classes—I’m frequently modifying moves because so many of them suffer from weak wrists.

“Most of the time, wrist pain in a push-up or high plank comes down to mobility or positioning, if it isn’t something more severe like arthritis or an injury,” explains certified trainer Roger Montenegro, who runs Made Possible Personal Training in St. Petersburg, Florida.

“If your wrists are tight or you’re dumping too much weight into the heels of your hands without using the rest of your upper body and core, they’re going to take on way too much stress,” says Monetenegro, who specializes in training seniors. “The angle of the wrist in a push-up or plank can be intense if you're not used to bearing weight in that position.”

He’s got some tricks for how to adapt these two moves if you have weak wrists.

Hold dumbbells

“One thing you can do to reduce wrist strain when you do a push-up is to switch your position by holding dumbbells for support. Use a neutral grip (palms facing each other), with knuckles pointing down to the ground.”

Decrease the load

Woman performing a push-up with her hands on a raised step

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“You can also decrease the load by going down to your knees to reduce the weight on your wrists,” he says.

“Alternatively, increase the height of where you are doing a push-up from, either from a bench or a barbell up in the rack. This will help take the load off the wrists while building up strength.”

Go on your forearms

“For a high plank, you can do the same modifications as a push-up or you can go down to your forearms if holding that high position isn't working for you.”

Alternative wrist-friendly exercises

But Montenegro warns it’s important not to ignore signs of weak wrists, which could indicate other issues, including shoulder instability, lack of core engagement or elbow tendinitis.

“If your core, elbow and shoulders are not doing their job, they will dump all the weight onto the wrists!” says Montenegro.

“Another sign of weak wrists is having trouble supporting your bodyweight in movements that require wrist extension, like even holding yourself up on all fours to do a cat-cow could hurt.”

If that sounds familiar, Montenegro has some different wrist-friendly exercises you can try. “For a push-up alternative you can do a banded chest press to hit all the same muscles just with less load on the wrists.

“For high plank you could swap it out for a hollow hold or dead bug to work the core without hurting your wrists.

“Farmer’s carries are a great way to work on grip and wrist strength. Hammer curls and reverse curls are also good exercises that avoid unnecessary wrist pressure and can improve forearm strength.”

But Montenegro cautions that he’s not suggesting you avoid push-ups or planks forever. “It’s about making small changes and slowly progressing so your body can build up to them safely,” says Montenegro. “And remember, modifications are not a downgrade, they are a smart way to get stronger and stay injury-free.”

Maddy Biddulph

Maddy Biddulph is a freelance journalist specializing in fitness, health and wellbeing content. With 26 years in consumer media, she has worked as a writer and editor for some of the bestselling newspapers, magazines and websites in the US and UK. 

She is also a qualified L3 personal trainer and weight loss advisor, and helps women over 40 navigate menopause by improving their physical and mental strength. At Maddy Biddulph Personal Training, she runs one-to-one and small group training for menopausal women who want to get fit to ease symptoms and feel like themselves again.

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