If you can’t sit cross-legged, you probably have some tight muscles limiting your movement.
“Instead of forcing the position, focus on improving hip mobility through slow, controlled Pilates movements,” suggests Nicolle Lopez-Lamberty, a Pilates instructor and the founder of NuPilates.
She recommends doing these five beginner-friendly exercises to stretch and strengthen your hip flexors, glutes, inner thighs and deep hip stabilizers.
“With consistent practice, you’ll notice it’s easier to sit cross-legged, along with improvements in everyday movements like walking, climbing stairs and getting up from the floor,” she says.
The exercises
“While performing these hip-opening exercises two to three times per week will help improve mobility, practicing them daily is the most effective way to increase flexibility and restore healthy movement,” says Lopez-Lamberty.
- Supine figure four
- Butterfly
- Half-kneeling hip flexor stretch
- Happy baby
- High-knee psoas hold
1. Supine figure four
Sets: 2-3 Hold: 30-60sec each side
Muscles targeted: Glutes and external hip rotators
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How to do it:
- Lie on your back with your feet flat on the floor and your knees bent.
- Cross your left ankle over your right thigh and interlace your fingers under your right thigh below your knee.
- Gently pull your right leg toward your chest until you feel a stretch in your left hip.
- Hold for 30 to 60 seconds, then release and repeat on the other side.
Regression: Keep your foot on the floor if pulling your leg toward your chest is too intense.
2. Butterfly stretch
Sets: 2-4 Hold: 30-60sec
Muscles targeted: Inner thighs and groin.
How to do it:
- Sit on the mat with your back straight and the soles of your feet pressed together.
- Relax your legs and allow your knees to fall to the sides. Notice where you begin to feel a stretch in your inner thighs.
- Hold your ankles and keep your back straight.
- Gently lean forward from your hips if comfortable and hold the position for 30 to 60 seconds.
Regression: Sit on a yoga block to elevate your hips to make the stretch less intense.
3. Half-kneeling hip flexor stretch
Sets: 2-4 Hold: 30-60sec each side
Muscles targeted: Hip flexors
How to do it:
- Kneel on the floor.
- Place your left foot on the floor in front, with your left knee bent at 90°.
- Extend your right leg behind you, keeping your knee and shin on the floor.
- Keep your back straight and shift your weight forward so it is over your left leg.
- Tuck your pelvis slightly to deepen the stretch without arching your back.
- Hold for 30 to 60 seconds and repeat on both sides.
Regression: Use a folded towel or yoga block under your rear knee to reduce pressure on your knee and improve balance.
4. Happy baby
Sets: 2-4 Hold: 30-60sec
Muscles targeted: Hip flexors, inner thighs and lower back.
How to do it:
- Lie on your back with your legs bent.
- Lift your feet off the floor and bring your knees toward your chest.
- Grasp the outside of your feet or ankles.
- Bring your knees toward your armpits while keeping your lower back on the mat.
- Hold for 30 to 60 seconds while breathing deeply.
Regression: Hold your shins or the back of your thighs instead of your feet.
5. High-knee psoas hold
Sets: 2-3 Hold: 20-30sec each side
Muscles targeted: Psoas, deep core and glutes.
How to do it:
- Stand with a straight back and your feet hip-width apart.
- Engage your core and shift your weight onto your left leg.
- Lift your right knee to hip height and interlace your fingers on your shin, just under your knee.
- Keep your pelvis level and hold the pose for 20 to 30 seconds.
- Lower with control and repeat on the other side, alternating with each rep.

Lou Mudge is a Health Writer at Future Plc, working across Fit&Well and Coach. She previously worked for Live Science, and regularly writes for Space.com and Pet's Radar. Based in Bath, UK, she has a passion for food, nutrition and health and is eager to demystify diet culture in order to make health and fitness accessible to everybody.
Multiple diagnoses in her early twenties sparked an interest in the gut-brain axis and the impact that diet and exercise can have on both physical and mental health. She was put on the FODMAP elimination diet during this time and learned to adapt recipes to fit these parameters, while retaining core flavors and textures, and now enjoys cooking for gut health.
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